October Sex Positions (Based on Your Sign)

Eager to find out what's in store for your sex life this month? Find your sign below to read what your October sex positions are...

ARIES - The X Factor

This position is an electric start to introducing bondage into your sex life. It straddles that fine line between the arousal of trying a new sex act and the uncertainty that comes along with it. Have your partner (or yourself) lay face down in an x-shaped position, with both arms and legs spread apart. Your partner won’t be able to see your movements beforehand, adding an additional level of erotic anticipation. Get creative with the possibilities this position allows for; give oral sex from behind, gently play with their butt, or even slide in from behind. It’s truly a dealer’s choice.

TAURUS - The Arc De Triomphe

This position centers on the impact that oral sex has in the bedroom. The Arc De Triomphe is a slight variation on the more common face-sitting position. Have your partner lay down on the bed, facing towards you. Position yourself as if you’re simply going into the standard face sitting pose, but when you are here, balance yourself on all fours, leaning on your hands and arching your back a bit. Adjust your hips as your partner is eating you out to hit that sweet spot. This position will boost your likelihood of having multiple orgasms, and once you’ve had your fill, it’ll be the perfect opportunity to return the favor.

GEMINI - Remote Control Lover

This position is essentially telling your partner exactly what you want them to do to you, how you want them to do it, and when you want them to do it. You are the one in charge in this position, and in every action, you remain in dominance. This is a good way to introduce yourself and your partner to light BDSM. Command your partner’s every move - tell them to bend over for some light spanking, have them masturbate while you watch and tease them, order them to give you oral. The sky's the limit here - it’s whatever you like as long as you have a consenting partner. Consent is the true key to this position. 

CANCER - The Pretend Lover

The Pretend Lover is a total power position for masturbation. Go ahead and grab your favorite dildo, place it on the floor, a chair, or the bed and essentially fuck the shit out of it, as if it was a physical penis. Really let yourself go - rock back and forth as much as you please, rubbing your clit as you go along. If you aren’t able to orgasm with just penetration (like the majority of the people with vaginas) this penetration will still feel oh, so good. You can always add a vibrator on your clit! It will also help you be more expressive in bed with a partner if you’re naturally more withdrawn. 

LEO - Reverse Cowgirl

This classic sex position is perfect for getting the most out of one night stands. Face your partner’s feet and lower yourself down onto their penis, dildo, or strap-on. Go as slowly or as quickly as is comfortable for both you and your partner. This position only works if both of you are comfortable with each motion and speed. If you’re going at a fast pace, feel free to brace yourself with your hands to keep the pleasure going all night long. This position gives all of the power of doggy style, but still provides you with enough control to influence how the sexual encounter goes. 

VIRGO - About Face

In the time of Covid-19, casual hookups need an additional level of protection outside of condoms. This position is perfect to minimize you and your partner’s exposure to heavy breathing and droplet-spreading that traditionally comes with sex. Have your partner sit down and lean backwards a bit on their hands, while you simultaneously sit down on your favorite dildo, strap-on, or even your partner’s penis. As you are lowering down on your partner’s lap, add in your favorite vibrator to stimulate your clit to receive maximum bliss. 

LIBRA - The Slide Dish

During your month of masturbatory self-love, this position will be perfect in helping you explore every part of your body. Specifically, this position centers on exploring the pleasure of ass play. While laying down on your side and using lube, begin stimulating your clit with one finger at first, then slowly incorporating a second finger. When you start getting close to orgasm, slow down and finger yourself (or use your favorite dildo or insertable vibrator). When you again are almost ready to orgasm, ease back once more, but this time lower your fingers or toys further down to start exploring your butt. Slide a lubed up finger in the back or incorporate a butt plug. Whatever you choose, the additional level of stimulation will make for an epic orgasm when you finally do climax. 

SCORPIO - Sticky Fingers

You don’t need anyone or anything to have an amazing time in bed. October will be a good month for you to explore how you can best pleasure yourself so that when you are alone or feeling isolated, you can still have sexual pleasure. This position is a simple one, but oh so hot. Start off by slowly tapping your clit. It's best if you aren’t using lube right away, the natural tackiness will be a great starting point. Stop and go when touching your clit, and while it might not get you going right away, keep going at it and increase the intensity. Now add lube in, and begin rubbing your clit in circular motions - which will give way to waves and waves of pleasure and orgasms. 

SAGITTARIUS - The Counter Service

This position is all about making a quickie as hot and simple as possible. Not every time you have sex has to be a long, drawn out thing. Short sessions have the ability to be just as hot. This position is just three easy steps: proceed to the nearest counter or table, pull down your pants or lift up your skirt, and then bend your partner over. You can use any of your favorite toys here or you can go for some oral from behind. It’ll be hot regardless of what sex act you decide to take. 

CAPRICORN - The Kinky Jockey

This position is just as fun as it sounds. Have your partner kneel on all fours. From there, straddle your partner’s hips and begin to pull their hair and rub their genitals from behind. Feel free to use as much pressure on either the hair pulling or stimulation as you see fit. Make your partner come close to orgasm, but don’t let them completely finish until you’ve given them permission. To increase your own pleasure gyrate your clit against their tailbone. 

AQUARIUS - Defying Gravity

This sex position is almost as daring as you are this month. Have your partner sit on the bed or couch, and position yourself facing away from them. While facing away, kneel and straddle them. From here, bend yourself in a way where your hips are in the air and you’re using your hands for support. Either wrap your legs around your partner’s waist for more stability or behind their head for oral access to eat you out from behind. If you’re both feeling extra spicy, incorporate some light butt play or some ass-eating. 

PISCES - The Pleasing Prop-Up

This position is a great way to heighten levels of penetration and increase the intensity of traditional missionary. It’s a super easy way to spice things up without having to invest in anything or try something too intense. When you’re in missionary position, prop a pillow under the butt of whoever is on bottom so their hips are on a slightly higher angle than before. It might sound too simple to be effective, but when it comes to penetrative sex, it’s all about those angels.