What is Sex Magic?
Did you know sex is the most powerful energy on earth (to us)? It can create life! But what if you could use this power to achieve your desires outside of the bedroom? Sex magic, also called sexual transmutation, is a practice that helps us to use our sexual energy and harness it to manifest our life goals.
Many people have a complex connection with their own sexuality. By harnessing our sexual energy and learning to use it, we can improve our relationship with our bodies, leading to a better sex life.
What is sexual energy?
There is energy in our body, called “kundalini.” For most people, this energy gathers in the base of the spine. We are actually able to tap into that energy and move it up through the energy centers (called chakras) that are located all along the spine. The energy can get blocked within each energy center.
The power of thought is one way to move this energy. Using our mind, we can change this sexual energy into success energy. Another way to move the energy through the chakras is through mantra and breath-work.
Although it takes a lot of practice to move dormant energy all the way up through the crown, it is easy to get started with just a few steps.
What do you need to practice sex magic?
An energetically open body
A simple way to begin to move energy blocked in the body is by stretching daily. Practicing yoga can be a great place to start.
A calm mind
Meditation is the best way to calm the mind. Simply try sitting still with the eyes closed and focus on the breath. Even science has shown the immense benefits of meditation.
Benefits of practicing sex magic
More energy and increased vitality
Sexual energy is also your life force energy. When it stays in the body for too long, it begins to accumulate.
When you are full of this sexual energy, you might feel like you are always trying to keep yourself busy. You simply need to find more ways to dissipate the energy. Once you are able to effectively harness the energy, you will find a better balance.
Material and professional success
An excess of sexual energy can make you feel extremely motivated.
Learn to use your sexual energy to manifest success in your life, and you will get that promotion you’ve been waiting for before you know it.
Improved sex life
Sex magic will teach you to use your sexual energy with intent and moderation. It can actually increase your libido. Learn to have control over your sexual energy to have more pleasurable sex.
A guide to sex magic
Step 1: What is your goal?
Figure out what you want to achieve. What are your dreams? Write down your goal, and begin to visualize it.
Step 2: Find focus
Instead of acting on your sexual arousal, remember your goal, and focus your attention there. Remember why you chose to work towards your goal, and concentrate on your visualization.
Step 3: Be patient
Don’t give up. Be patient, and keep your attention on your goal. It takes time, but eventually, things will begin to manifest.
Step 4: Avoid sexual stimulation for a few weeks
Spend some time without any sexual activity, including masturbation. This is key to sexual transmutation. By conserving your sexual essence, you will learn to control your sexual energy. Eventually, you will enjoy high energy levels and increased libido.
For men, instead of total abstinence, you may choose to practice semen retention. This is the practice of avoiding seminal ejaculation when you orgasm. You may find you have better energy overall.
Step 5: Use breathwork to move stored energy
Breathwork is a great way to get dormant energy moving. Make sure you are in a relaxed seat, then try inhaling for a count of eight, exhaling for eight, and holding for eight. Let the breath flow naturally as you count. Repeat this practice for seven minutes, and notice how you feel.
These techniques for practicing sex magic will help you move sexual energy through the energy centers of the body. Instead of releasing your sexual energy only through sex, you can use it to manifest your dreams and goals.
